Thanks Aurora. Hopefully Deepak or Menas will answer.
I feel the observer in me is neutral, not judging. It’s not looking for anything, either peace or happiness.
For the human species, “love” is useful since it keeps us to go into war. Without love, our survival would be in danger. And that does not imply that “love” is the nature of the universe and consciousness.
When I look around me, I see people having unkind behaviors who feel good about it. They seem to get a kind of bliss that is comparable to the bliss that compassionate and loving people feel.