Thanks for your reply. I always say there is NO darkness, it is only absence of Light and yes everything is about balance. It sounds like you have had many experiences with spirit people as James Van Praagh calls them. I am reading a 3rd book of his. I have had too many experiences to tell about and sometimes they seem just too personal to share. My views of the world and of who we are do not go along with many people I meet so I keep them to myself unless I am guided to share them. Things are not really as complicated as people make them, the human brain likes to complicate things.
The big thing for me is believing the messages I get instead of 2nd guessing.