Dear Lili, a warm and loving hug to you, dear sparkly being! 🙂 Thank you for your greetings and joy!
If I may refer to your dialogue with @jenniferl , I would just like to say that we don’t need belief that it will work- we just need to dismantle the false beliefs that there is something other than the self doing anything. Reality is that the self is doing all the doings, meaning all situations arise within the self. They are a creation of the self. That is reality, and step by step we remember it. We should, in other words, not strive to replace a negative belief with a positive one. Belief is guessing, while knowing is based on the actual experience of reality.
Hugs to you both, let’s keep dismantling the illusion of impossibility!